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WHY SHOULD ANYONE BE AFRAID OF LOSING YOU?

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 The biggest template for human importance in the modern world today is money!

Money is power, Money is love, Money is respect, Money is status. But beyond money, is there any other value that endears a person to a level of utmost importance to others?


It feels like the modern relationship is fickle and superficial, as there seems to be no willingness to build, fight and nurture. The average person is willing to throw away everything at the slightest provocation. Integrity, reliability and loyalty is a mental mirage!


Everyone is replaceable, but no one is the same. Which means we are all a unique being that is associated with different characteristics as a person.

If the above sentiment is upheld, it only means no other person can offer a particular value verbatim. Why then is it easy to move on from a supposed uniqueness and diversity?


Kindness in my opinion is probably the most powerful value any one should possess. Peace, honesty, loyalty, integrity and modesty are attributes I hold in high esteem. Are they enough to keep a relationship/ friendship?

Is anyone willing to chase a value of such especially when it's placed in the opposite tandem with money?


Putting it into an individual delusion, why would anyone be afraid of losing you?

It's your thoughts and it's okay to sell an imaginary idea to yourself and see if it's enough for you to be cherished.

Are you watering others?

Are you a positive champ?

What energy are you associated with?

Are you a peaceful and kind being?

Are you love?


Money is the cheapest form of love, because you don't necessarily have to be a good person and yet you still get loyalty, love and respect in the most conditional form. You are perceived as a provisional status holder, and your importance is based on this piece of paper you seem to have in abundance, until or if you lose it.


It's time to reflect and ponder on your values and attributes that are worthy of human sacrifices and importance.


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